You are not alone. In the beginning, we all want to give our partners the best of us.  But the realities of everyday life: kids, bills, cooking, cleaning, debt, working, health issues, etc., can quickly take over.  What was once romantic joy, is being replaced with disappointment, frustration, loneliness, and stress. Have you gotten to the place where you no longer feel love for your spouse/partner? You once loved one another so deeply, and can’t understand how it all changed. You went from fun conversations, to having the same argument over and over again.  Somewhere along the line, the love, trust, and happiness gave way to constant bickering, feeling rejected, and unappreciated.